now I know what the JFK era felt like, should I be disgusted or proud?
Male adoration is odd. Our biggest fear is inappropriate behavior-
sorry for that whole rapist thing btw, was in a dark place last chapter
yet our priority in life is to attract a partner. That means learning when to pursue and when you need to ease off.
maybe that’s why they have that
round the bases analogy
round the bases analogy
But how do we stop it from becoming a
cheap competition?
how do you stop anything from becoming a competition?
I thought we were talking about character. you do your best and let it shake out in the end
relationships are between the parties involved, not to be litigated in the court of public opinion
But then the concept of the public is where
relations clash with autonomy
as in, your rights end where mine begin.
The idea of society seems to have a lot in common with idea of love. Both lead to nagging questions of authority.
Who’s judgement is most valid?
