Care, respect, responsibility and knowledge, as Eric would say. Micro to the macro. The other person in any relationship isn’t ever going to be perfect.

Mistakes are going to happened

There are going to be imbalances. But if we perpetuate this back and forth cycle we’re going to just end up destroying each other.

In love and in life in general.

so you don’t think there’s any ethical way we could have swung that threesome?

I guess if we had communicated better to Sha about what we wanted and were more open about our previous actions looking for fun outside the relationship.

Do right & fear no woman

Those girls had got down like that in the past, why not with us?

But that’s the difference that some men seem to confuse with a need to be cold.

You can have the clear communication that opens up doors to all sorts of

crazy sexual experiences

in your life and still be an asshole.