that time you reached for her friend in bed?

Yeah…that was a little bit of a break in the trust between me and Sha I guess.

or when you posted ads for a fuckbuddy while she was at work?

This is not the time to analyze my behave-

ah fuck

Well…When a man is trying to develop a sense of who he is in a complicated society in which-

you’s a dirty dog, why deny that we get down

see a moon, we gon howl

we didn’t choose what we were born with but fuck if we ain’t gonna share it with the world

I am a man

Our actions define what that means.

You can pick and choose the attributes from this animal or that, this study or that one to defend any selfish behavior.

But that’s not being intellectually honest.

Reality is the explanation which includes all others.

I gave you autonomy over your names for your paradoxes.

I gave you space for your beliefs that match up just as well as any less romantic, less culturally grounded scientific names.

But when your explanation contradicts reality

data observed & recorded

then we have to take a step back I’d think.