And I’m the reason we never got laid. Developing relationships could just be a

series of enjoyable moments

You don’t have to project your anticipation or insecurities – or desperation – onto every possible interaction or person.

Let things happen without labels or judgements.

Respect the autonomy of the moment and the person who’s sharing it with you. Trust there will be more.

Despite the common phrase, it is not “everything.” This is one special thing. That person is another you.

Appreciate them as such.

still learning to chill I guess

We didn’t learn these lessons in school

experience taught us

not that we didn’t try. a couple community colleges, back to socal for that stint in cal state san bernaghetto, then back north to “audit” classes at ucsc